The Top 10 Traits Women Want in a Man

(Noted this interesting article from MSN lifestyle which attract my attention and is way too applicable to me, so share with you here, have joy!!)

Convincing evidence suggests money is a powerful tool used to get a woman's attention. But if you eliminate cash and gifts of Manolo Blahniks from the equation, it is unclear which of the more intangible attributes contribute to a man's sexiness.

By Lisa Jones

Objective

To identify, quantify, and rank the traits that make a man "hot" to women.

Methods and Subjects

We surveyed more than 1,000 American women ages 21 to 54 in two online polls. One was conducted by Opinion Research Corporation, based in Princeton, New Jersey, and the other was done on BestLifeOnline.com.

Results

We organized traits and characteristics according to the percentage of women who ranked them within the top 10 attributes. Women rated traits relating to character and personality much higher than they scored those reflecting physical attractiveness. For example, only 13 percent of women included muscular build as a requisite for hotness, while 66 percent placed moral integrity as a "make me quiver" characteristic. Check out the supporting data.

1 - Faithfulness

More than 8 out of 10 women rated "faithful to me" in the top 10 attributes they find sexy in a man. A woman's tendency toward attachment is a biological imperative, a matter of raising offspring right. Reassure her (often) that you're not going anywhere.

2 - Dependability

Three out of four women say they look for a man who makes commitments and follows through. Being responsible—even if it's just remembering to pick up salad dressing on your way over to her place—sends a positive signal that someday you might commit.

3 - Kindness

Young women may still fall for the bad-boy type, but more-mature women are turned on by kindness, because kindness inspires confidence. In other words, if you treat the waitress well, your date figures you'll treat her well, too.

4 - Sense of Humor

Being able to laugh at the stresses of this world is a must, according to the women on our panel. You get bonus points if you can make them laugh. Humor tells a woman that you can laugh at—read, handle easily—the many difficulties that life throws at you.

5 - Intelligence

A worldly, interesting man is a man she likes to show off. Men who are take-charge problem solvers make women feel secure, and men who are always improving are never boring.

6 - Passion

Why have women always melted for musicians? Because rock stars are passionate in public. Women like displays of passion because they're not accustomed to seeing them from men. Get passionate about something: kayaking, impressionistic art, barbecuing, or Habitat for Humanity. It's proof that you care for and about something beyond yourself.

7 - Listening

Pay attention. A woman feels safe and secure when she knows her man will put down his BlackBerry and listen to her. Magic words: "I'm here. Tell me everything."

8 - Romancing

Romance appeals to a woman's right-brained, less-logical side. Every woman fantasizes about being swept off her feet. Romance is bold because you're displaying your desire for a woman and revealing a softer, more vulnerable side that women find irresistible.

9 - Sense of Style

The way you dress reflects on the woman you're with, and she knows it. The man who knows how to match a patterned shirt and tie will notice when she's dressed well, too. (And maybe he'll pay for the Blahniks.) Keep your tailor and your dry cleaner busy, and spring for posh, touchable fabrics like cashmere, suede, pima cotton, and brushed corduroy.

10 - Handsome Face

The science of attraction, which has been studied ad infinitum, says it's all about symmetry. Imagine you have a dotted red line (Nip/Tuck style) vertically through the center of your face, down your nose. Are your features similar in form and arrangement on both sides of the line? Do your eyes and ears match up? The closer one side mirrors the other, the more attractive you are. Women in cross-cultural studies have also ranked men with broad chins, high cheekbones, and large eyes as the most attractive. Best way to improve your looks: Smile more, and make certain your sideburns are even.

And what do you think, Mr. Neow? kiak kiak

甜甜可爱

有觉得这漫画，似曾相识的？嘻嘻

有人向我投诉说，

怎么那么久没见我写关于男孩的故事的？

哈，就来让我说说故事吧。

他，在很久以后，又再一次的搭上长途巴士的，

为的就是去找他的女孩。

但有段时侯，大家都坚持己见，

最后他让给她赢。

可以说的，女孩真的有感动到的 ^.^

填饱肚子后，男孩很有耐心的陪她去寻找她要的NOTE，

那里没了，在和丰区一间又一间的询问，

即使男孩有少许的病了，

女孩感叹到，有钱却买不了，

他既安慰之。

记得在HUSH PUPIES FAIR吗？

他们上了车后，还是有下了车，

去买女孩要的 “甜甜可爱”，

哈哈，男孩丫还一本正经的在旁相陪，

面无惧色，

其实，女孩觉得男孩比那些更可爱的 ^. <

当然也没忘记，他为她选的钱袋，

见了又看，很是喜欢。

需要投诉的说，

那甜甜的奶酪，

她一口，他就好几口的，

来回几次，

女孩才吃没那么几口 >.<"

噢，还有的，

男孩想给女孩惊喜的，

女孩左骗诱骗的，还是得逞不了，

最后的最后，

男孩还是忍不住了，

通通报晓，唯独那情书的内容，嘻嘻，

女孩很是期待着喔。

嘻嘻，分享完毕，

希望那男孩没在那喷泪的，哈哈

开心

自从在幸福医院工作后，
我很少说开心，
压力直逼我到了极点。

每每我放工后，
都会喊很累，很压力，
母亲大人，问我怎么这样子的，
达，令你担心，
发现我比从前不快乐，不开心，
频频的叫我珍惜自己，
熬不过来，就放弃，别勉强自己的。

老板，同事，
懂我，拼了劲去把那委于我的重任，
尽完全力，
可我没在他们面前，说任何，
只是草草地说，累了些。

直至，同事的鼓励，老板的体谅，
帮我反映了我的有限，需要多一位同事的帮忙，
然，大老板还是keep in view。

另位同事大大的鼓励，
我向负责的专科副院长，
反映了我的问题，
很开心，很感动，
她很明了我的有限，
直接在我的面前致电于大老板，
期望她能加多位于这服务的。

我的开心，不是在于，
将会或很久之后有位同事来分担工作的，
而是老板们的肯定，
也许那是，表面上的鼓励，
但那已是给予我久久的推动力去前进。

我不懂这动力会助于我前进多久，
也许下一步我真的会放弃，
向我的梦想前进。

此刻，我只告诉自己说，
看见病人有进展，有进步，
已是我最大的安慰与工作的满足。

我希望我是每天带着很愉快的心情去工作，
而不是很心不甘，情不愿的去工作，
因为药剂师这一行，是我的兴趣，是我的选择。

很邪门的一天

怎么说邪们呢？

唉，紧张兮兮的，

准备了又准备的presentation，

老板，学姐们给予的鼓励，

隔着两地，熬着疲惫爱睡的身躯，你给我练习着，

今天终于能在院长，专科权威，医生们面前发表了，

心情还是这样的紧张。

老早便到达医院了，

谁知seminar room没人开的，

学姐帮我找来了备钥匙，

门开了，电脑却不在，

负责人也请假去，

此时，被告知，医院的三大高层都不在，

想着好的一面，

也许没那么的紧张，

不好的便是没能在他们面前发表。

厄运还是没停着，

老板私自借我的电脑却不能放映在白帘上，

专科医生，医生及其他的都坐在席上，

众目眈眈的凝视着，惊怕到……

另架电脑端上的，

荧幕能放映出来，

却不能开power point…boomb…

无奈之下，老板决定把我的presentation延迟到下个星期的……

你们说邪门吗？

我真的很可怜，

本想提呈完这后，

就能大肆庆祝了，

接二连三的霉运，

不能让我完成，

还要将这紧张的心情延续着，超级不爽的。

想好的，也许要我再练习的，

也许要等那三位高层能参与我的发表，

令他们对此课题有所改变……

所以，又要麻烦你了，

隔着两地帮我练习的，

学姐老板们还说要听我练习多一次@@

二十二

等了好久一下下，

想见你的心，已到了极点。

二十二到了，

我们要见面了，在这“悠长”的假期 ^^

我在这方很勤劳的做着家务，

你在那方踩着‘金马’飞来找我的，

很期待，很开心，很开心………

算一算，你快要到了，

心里是特别的兴奋，却又有那么一阵子的郁闷，

就在这时，你给我捎来个电话，

“金马“与别人的“娃扎”接吻了。

心里顿了一下下，

好在哥哥在家，

即刻陪我去看个究竟……

好在没伤及人，

车子着损了，心也安了。

达，令你来找我的这趟路途，

“金马”碰上了小伤，

你也惊吓了，

不好，不好。

我不想你来找我有任何意外的可能性……

好吗？

迟发现，却惊喜。

在检查邮件时，

突然间发现，

被特制，以你为名的“文荐”夹,

突然间多了百多封未读邮件，

我还以为自己把未读的邮件移错了位置，

查看之下，

原来我没在msn上线 时，

你捎来了很多我不在线的信息，

通通储存在这“文荐”夹，呵呵。

一一的打开阅读，

虽然迟发现的信息，

却是那么的惊喜又感动 T.T

为我疲倦的一天，

带来了这份温暖，好喜欢 ^^

达，令你久等了。

好想告诉你说，

生活中有你一起分享，

多了无形的肩膀却少了份忧虑，

我好幸福，真的。